If I’m only into dirty talk, but my partner needs long massages to get into the mood, it becomes difficult at some point to have sex together. And arousal always takes place physically: breathing changes, body tension can vary, more blood flows into the genitals and the penis and vulva/vagina get an erection, which we often (not always, by the way!) experience as pleasurable and horny.Īnd so the exploration of sexual difficulties in couple sexuality is not only about finding the lowest common denominator with each other – but about expanding and learning about one’s own sexuality. things that one likes and that work great to get aroused. In sexuality, however, we often forget that each person has a very individual, learned sexuality, and yes, this clearly includes “turn-ons” that have been developed over the years – i.e. And here lies a limitation of working with the “Erotic Blueprints”: It depends on the willingness of both partners and could also come to the conclusion: Well, you are just too different!Įncouraging communication and self-reflection in a couple is always a good idea, and this is where the strengths of the model lie: it is a couple-dynamic approach, in a similar way to couple therapy or counselling, and can be helpful for many within such a framework. Especially if this kind of access has not played a role in the person’s life so far. Just because I know what turns me on doesn’t necessarily mean that I can get my sex partner excited about it. In reality, this is probably not always the case. In the scenario of the Netflix series, both partners are open and willing to try things out, even in public. Seducing someone to engage in new experiences and to feel a lot in different ways is a great, yet oftentimes not an easy skill to realise – whether in life or in sexuality. The concept is reminiscent of Chapman’s “5 languages of love,” which are also primarily about understanding oneself better and communicating more mindfully with each other on this basis. The aim is to work on finding a common “sex language” and to understand where things are going wrong. Jaiya Ma uses the categories to get couples talking to each other and reflecting on commonalities and differences. Exciting at first, and, let’s face it – who doesn’t love taking a quiz about themselves? Type number five is the shapeshifter, who moves through all types and can draw excitement from everything.īut the evaluation is not quite so black and white, at least not in the Pleasure Profile, which has to be paid for: the results are given in percentages, so you have to find out how many of which blueprints you have. If you are the energetic type, you are turned on less by direct touch than by teasing, and the energy of the other person the sensual type draws its turn-ons from all five senses the sexual type focuses on nudity, genitals, everything visual and orgasms and if you are kinky, you are turned on by taboo-breaking and lustful forbidden things either in fantasy or in playing with each other. After taking the quiz you can find out which one you are. On this call, we’re going to discuss what you’re wanting for your sex life, what’s getting in the way, and how I may be able to assist you in getting that.The “Erotic Blueprints” is a test, where the answers consist of 5 categories. If you’re wanting to build your sexual confidence, experience out-of-this-world sex, and take a peek at how this information could change your life, I invite you to apply for a complimentary possibility call with me. for you to understand the needs of your partners so you can play, and to get beyond what’s been challenging you. to teach you how to communicate your desires so they can be satisfied.to help you discover what lights your body up with turn on & what your true erotic blueprint is.Personally, I’ve been ALL of the blueprints, what a ride it’s been! Knowing your type gives you a beginning to use this information… the challenge is learning how to apply this to your sex life and relationships. Hi, I’m Jessie, I’ve been an Erotic Blueprint™ Coach, guiding hundreds of people towards sexual satisfaction professionally for 4 years.
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